Ya’ll… your comments have made me laugh, made me cheer, made my hungry (bummer), made me nod my head in agreement and some, sadly, made me cry. It has been my honor to pray for each of you. I pray that God will fill every empty space and satisfy your every desire.
We do have a random winner! Congratulations Kristy T! I will email you privately for your mailing address so I can get your autographed copy of Made to Crave shipped to you right away!
I promised to share some healthy recipe ideas throughout the month of January and I will keep my promise. But first, since I have received many emails asking me what I did to lose 50 pounds, I thought I would begin the first day of the new year with my “plan.” Please know (this is my disclaimer) that this “plan” works for me. I am not claiming that it will work for everyone and I have no idea what your individual medical/health concerns may be. I am not a doctor nor am I a nutritionist. I am not qualified in any way to give advice. I am simply sharing what I have learned over the past two years and what has worked well for my body. OK – consider yourself “advised.” Oh… and you should consult your own physician before beginning any new “diet.” (I think that’s what they say on the infomercials
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Let’s get straight to it.
First! I could not have done this without the help and advice of my friend Michelle Dillon, ND, or the support and encouragement of Lysa TerKeurst, Marybeth Whalen and Zoe Elmore. If you live in the Charlotte area, a free consultation with Dr. Dillon, a Naturopathic Physician, would be a great first step. She helps you figure out what works for your body. Oh… and she even prays with you! Also… you need the support of friends and family. They keep you encouraged and on track. Find someone who wants to lose weight with you and become accountability partners. It really does make a difference and… it sure is more fun!
OK – Here are my tips:
- No sugar! Sugar is your number one enemy. Now, once I lost the initial 50 pounds, I did incorporate a couple of natural sugars back into my diet but only in minimal amounts. I now use some stevia, honey and pure maple syrup as sweeteners and, on occasion, I use agave nectar. Be careful about the labels. Processed agave is not much better than sugar. Remember to read labels. Once I began to eliminate sugar from my diet I realized that it is in just about everything. Really… everything! However, if you eliminate processed and packaged foods, this is not a problem. Sugar can be listed in many ways on a label, including words that you have never heard of and just about anything that ends in “ose.” One more word about sugar… once I eliminated sugar from my diet I noticed an amazing difference in my overall health. I no longer got colds and flu when they went around. My regular headaches now occur only rarely. My PMS symptoms are pretty much gone and… no allergies! I’m serious! I used to have runny eyes, headaches, etc. due to seasonal allergies. They are completely gone! Sugar is, in fact, evil. If you eliminate it from your diet you will lose weight and feel so much better. You really won’t believe the difference!
- Eliminate all processed foods. Yes… you heard me right. This was not easy at first. I loved the convenience of a frozen entree. But, I learned that processed foods are filled with chemicals and preservatives that are not good for me. Packaged and processed foods may be marked as “low-fat,” “low-calorie,” even “sugar-free” or “whole-grain.” Don’t pay attention to the claims. Just read the list of ingredients. Processed and packaged foods are filled with ingredients and chemicals that your body cannot effectively process. This can cause your liver to function poorly which will detrimentally affect your overall health. And, if you cannot process the food, your body holds on to it! (Now, if you have been following She Cooks, you know that I do use packaged foods in some of my recipes. I’m just being honest… sometimes it’s just plain easier. But, in my day-to-day eating habits, I stick to the basics. I avoid all processed and packaged foods and sugar!)
- Just drink water. Really. Just water. No soda, caffeine or sweet tea! For a southern gal like me, giving up sweet tea was a bit of a challenge. Actually, giving up my morning Starbucks was harder. I sure did enjoy my morning non-fat mocha’s. (I now have a decaf one occasionally, simply because I enjoy the taste and I do not believe in depriving myself of everything yummy. I believe in moderation
) If you drink sodas (even diet sodas that are filled with sugar substitutes and chemicals) and/or sweet tea regularly, you will not believe the difference in the way you feel after you switch to just drinking water. It will take a week or so to get used to it but watch out… you will lose weight right away by making this simple switch and… you will feel so much better! Note: the only exception to my water only rule is a cup of caffeine free herbal tea with lemon, cinnamon, or a tiny bit of stevia. This is a great, soothing treat on a cold afternoon! - Switch from regular salt to sea salt. Regular salt is an inflammatory and causes you to retain water. If you watch or read information about the general well-being of the human body, you know that inflammation is a bad thing and the cause of several different chronic illnesses.
- No bread, pasta, cereal, or starchy foods. UGH! I do love my pasta and homemade bread hot out of the oven and covered with real butter. But… my thighs don’t love them as much as my taste buds do. And, these foods turn to sugar in your body. I stuck to this with no cheating until I reached my goal of losing 50 pounds. At that point I added in some whole grains, but only in moderation. I really do notice a difference in my overall health (and in the fit of my jeans) when I sneak too much of these items into my diet. When/if you allow these into your diet, just make smart choices… brown rice instead of white rice, 100% whole grain (as the first ingredient) instead of enriched or bleached flour in your breads, sweet potato instead of a white potato, etc.
- OK – that was a lot of “what not to consume” in my eating plan. Here’s what I do eat: I eat lots of lean proteins, vegetables, and fruits. Yes… this is what most “diet” plans stress but… if you get creative with your combinations, you will not only enjoy your food more and not feel deprived or hungry, but you will actually begin to crave these good foods! I know… I didn’t believe it either but it turned out to be true. I crave salad with my homemade dressing. Bottled dressings now taste thick and goopy to me (even vinaigrette’s) and I love roasted veggies! They are so sweet when you roast them. Who knew? (I will post a guide for roasting a variety of veggies this month.)
- Here’s my vinaigrette recipe. I use it on everything! Mix 4 teaspoons extra-virgin olive oil, 2 teaspoons cider vinegar, 1 teaspoon balsamic vinegar, 1 teaspoon Dijon or country mustard, sea salt and black pepper to taste. You can add garlic or herbs of choice or… finely grated shallots.
Another note: Don’t eliminate foods simply because they may be high in calories. Your body needs calories to function. However, make sure your food choices have nutritional value. Empty calories are no good. Nutritional calories, however, are fuel for your body. (This does not mean that I recommend consuming as many calories as you want. I’m just saying, some high calorie food choices are nutritionally good for you and should not be entirely omitted from your diet.)
My Typical Everyday Food Choice Options
Breakfast:
- Two hard boiled eggs and a grapefruit
- A boneless, skinless chicken breast and a container of Dannon Carb and Sugar Control yogurt (yes, I sometimes eat chicken for breakfast)
- A handful of natural almonds and a container of Dannon Carb and Sugar Control yogurt
- Leftover grilled or broiled salmon with sliced Honey Dew melon or cantaloupe or strawberries or blueberries
- Two scrambled eggs with two slices of turkey bacon
Lunch:
- Mixed greens or spinach topped with grilled chicken, tuna, salmon, prawns, thinly sliced steak, etc. with veggies and/or toasted almonds and strawberries, dressed with my homemade vinaigrette dressing.
- A hamburger patty and a side salad from a fast-food restaurant (if I don’t have time to make lunch in advance). Do not eat the bun and ask for the burger plain (no condiments). Also, have your own dressing ready.
- Any lean protein with two servings of vegetables (a little butter or low-fat cheese on your veggies is OK – also good with fresh lemon juice and garlic)
Dinner:
- Any of the breakfast or lunch options. I also make different meals that I will share recipes for throughout this month.
Snacks:
- A handful of natural almonds, fresh fruit, low-fat cheese, etc. I make sure any snacks pack a lot of nutrients and I also make sure that they include a lean protein. To keep myself from snacking to much, I brush my teeth after each meal. If you brush your teeth right after you eat dinner, you will be less likely to want to snack your way through your evening! (At least that works for me.)
Let’s see… what else can I share with you?
Oh… I exercise 30 minutes a day at least every other day.
OK – this is very creepy and I realize that this might be too much information but… sometimes when I am cooking something that I know I should not be eating (cooking for guests or special occasions), I spit out my taste tests when no one is looking. My son is appalled by this behavior but… if I am going to create recipes, I have to taste them to get the spices correct. One or two tastes is OK but… sometimes it takes quite a few to get it right! Well… now you know my ugly secret. I’m guessing wine tasters have to do the same thing otherwise… well… they wouldn’t be walking straight!
When I really crave a carb, I have found that my body does better if I have it later in the day instead of for breakfast. My body does much better if I begin with a protein. And… I never have a carb without a protein. So… when I really want a bowl of cereal, I make a smart choice (a whole grain non-sugary cereal) and enjoy it late in the afternoon.
Moderation! It is unrealistic to think that we can give up everything that isn’t good for us without at some point completely giving in to our craving and then overindulging to the point of feeling sick. If you really want a bite of your birthday cake… take a bite or two. Just don’t eat the entire cake. And, make smart choices around the cake. The point of any diet is to be healthy. It isn’t to be miserable. Make smart day-to-day choices and… never let food come first in your life.
I think that’s about all I can think of right now. I’ll share more tips throughout January, along with the healthy option recipes I promised. In the meantime, I would love to hear your tips for staying healthy! We are all in this together and we all have different things that work for our bodies and lifestyles. Let’s pool our efforts and help each other out! Thanks friends!
Wishing you a happy and healthy New Year. May 2011 be filled with the peace of God’s presence and more love and joy than your hearts can contain!
Sweetest Blessings,
LeAnn










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Wow! I can only imagine how much energy and how good you must feel by eating this way. Congrats on the weight loss. That is amazing. Since last summer I have put on serious weight and definitely need to get it in check. It’s amazing what seeing pictures of yourself will do to help you realize the need to change your eating habits.
Happy New Year!
LeAnn: I loved reading your tips and how you “did it”! Awesome! I admire your self-control and commitment. And you have a great support there!
God is good!
Love you ~
Sharon
Congratulations on your weight loss. I’m sure you’re feeling much healthier. My question is about family. How would I incorporate this into serving meals for my family? My husband is not prepared to give up his bad food choices yet (though he knows he should and has previously lost weight doing so). And my children, well, I’m sure to have a revolt on my hands as you can imagine. Are there ways to introduce things a little at a time? Do you have any suggestions for incorporating healthier food choices into more traditional family-style meals? Can you suggest a helpful website that might help me with these issues? Thanks so much. Have a happy and healthy new year!
LeAnn — Thanks so much for the great tips! I lost about 40 pounds several years ago and have been pretty good at keeping it off. But — I do need to begin to eat more healthy foods. It’s difficult when I have a husband who is over-weight and doesn’t really have the desire to eat differently. He still wants the good old-fashioned farm cooking! I’m gonna do my best to kind of gradually change things around here, though. It will happen — and he won’t even notice it!
Thanks for all the encouragement that you give! KK
Great question, Tammy! Basically, I just add a starchy side like a baked potato or pasta, along with a roll for my son. I eat the protein, the veggie and a salad, just like Nick. I just add things to his plate.
Also, Nick really only wanted white bread, iceberg lettuce, white rice, etc. I gradually added more nutritious ingredients. A little at a time I added dark leafy greens to his salad; I “hid” spinach and finely chopped veggies into foods that he already liked; and I slowly transitioned from all white stuff to whole grains. I did it slowly so he wouldn’t notice
I will definitely look into some helpful websites! Thanks for your great question!
Blessings,
LeAnn
Great Job LeAnn!! and thanks for the wonderful tips! Just curious…is this the info that is in your book “Made to Crave”? I want to order this book anyway, but if this info is in there, I won’t bother trying to write all this down…LOL! It’s really scary for me when I think about trying to lose weight…I have about 100 lbs to lose, and am a former bariatric surgery patient (lost about 140 lbs after the surgery, but never got to my goal weight loss of 250 lbs) (yes I was quite large to say the least!) so trying to “diet” again scares the life out of me! But I can see how the things you have described are what I need to do…doing it though is the obstacle…Thanks again for the information! and HAPPY NEW YEAR!
Great advice! This is exactly the lifestyle I live and how I lost my 75 lbs. Congrats on your healthy lifestyle & Happy New Year!
Love, love, love this! I lost over 30 pounds this last year and still amworking to lose more.
Moderation for me was the biggest key. Eating less–even when it was stuff that wouldn’t normally be deemed “healthy.” I always use a small salad plate for dinner and wait at least a five minutes before I get seconds. I never want any. I’ve also trained myself to ask, “Am I really hungry or am I just bored?” Normally it’s boredom and routine (like nighttime TV snacking with the hubby.)
I do have to say that I can’t give up caffeine–or at least coffee. I’m passionate about Starbucks.
But I try to match my coffee habit with water consumption.
I’m definitely going to do the salt switch. We’ve done the whole grain/brown rice switch and it’s becoming normal.
The hardest part for us is affording better food. We’re a family of seven, and we can easily go through three pounds of bananas or five pounds of apples in a few days. We ration. I try to balance it with some whole grain, less fat options. Instead of normal butter crackers as snacks, I replace it with whole wheat pretzels.
I guess, just choosing better has worked for us. All those little choices have led to a big impact for both my husband and I. I can’t wait to try the recipes you have for us this year!
thanks for taking the time to write all that out, what a lot of work. Lysa says the same thing in her book. I am not sure if that is a realistic plan for me becuase I need to eat the way I will eat when I lose the weight, which means a hamburger and fries once in a blue moon, a few preztels with a beer if I want it. What works for me is kind of like the old weight watchers and The Woman’s Day diet I followed years ago from the Woman’s Day magazine. Basically, about1300- 1500 calories with servings from protein, 6-8 oz, carbs 3-4 servings choosing whole grains mostly, unlimited veggies, 3-4 heatlthy fats, 2 fruits and 2 low fat dairy servings. I exercise a lot because I like to be outside, then I don’t have to clean my house..ha,ha. I think it is important for everyone to find what works for them, doesn’t make them feel deprived and the key is consistency, which I have not had and that is why I am struggling. I may try your plan to jump start my weight loss, just not sure it is the right one for me, which I appreciate you and Lysa stating, we all need to find what works for us and what we can keep doing. I did the South Beach once for two weeks and had such bad headaches and was sooooo tired. Loved the foods but lack of carbs and fruit did not work for my body.
Happy New Year and you didnt’ gross me out about spitting out the tastes, I may have to try that one day.
LeeAnn this info is so helpful. You helped me to jump start my eating plan in the new year. I will be in on Melissa’s online Bible Study – Made to Crave. I would like to make your dressing. How long will it keep in the refrigerator? I would like to make several servings to have it ready to use. How do you transport it with you? I know I need to plan in advance and be cognizant of what I eat. A lot of mindless eating has gotten me nowhere fast. You are an inspiration!!
Hi Monica,
I make individual servings of the salad dressing. I purchased a set of mini plastic storage containers (with tight fitting lids) and make the dressings directly into the containers. Then, I grab my salad and a dressing and take them to work with me. I too have to plan ahead. Otherwise I will grab whatever is convenient and convenience isn’t always a wise choice for me!
I go through the dressing pretty quickly (I probably eat a salad almost every day) but it should last at least a month since there are no perishable ingredients.
Hope that helps! And thank you so much for your encouragement!
Blessings,
LeAnn
Thank you so much, Candy! The information I shared is what has worked for me. Lysa followed the same plan but what I posted is specific to me and not in her book. I highly recommend ordering Made to Crave. It is not a diet plan. What Lysa provides is the inspiration to help you find the “want to” in making healthy lifestyle changes. The book is truly life-changing.
Also… please don’t try to write it down! That would take too long. You can print the page or, if you have any problems with that, email me at LeAnn@shecooks.org and I will send you the text. Girl… I don’t want anything to be difficult
Blessings,
LeAnn
LeAnn, thanks for writing down your tips. I tried to keep them in mind when I went to the grocery store tonight. Eliminating sugar is my BIGGEST obstacle!! I have not had a soda (diet or otherwise) in five days. I find I don’t really miss it except at bedtime to take my pills. I feel a little discouraged though. Sugar is in everything and I am not sure I can afford budget wise to really eliminate it. I have three teenagers and a husband who are addicted to it. I am the worst. I want to kick the sugar habit before I develop diabetes like both my parents did. I will keep reading and keep trying. Thanks for being here for me!
Wow, LeAnn! I am so thankful that you shared your health plan, I have wondered how you lost the weight but I didn’t want to be nosey and ask, lol. I found out 2 years ago that I have serious allergies to certain foods (corn, peanuts and soy) and so I cut out almost all processed and packaged foods. My entire extended family and I switched to sea salt several years ago, natural almonds or almonds roasted in sea salt are my go to snack. I haven’t drank pop in years, quit drinking coffee cause I hate the taste without creamer and creamer has high fructose corn syrup, I drink water all day. I only buy 100% fruit juices for my kids, whole wheat bread or whole grain that does not have corn and only brands that do not have HFCS. The problem is, even with all these changes I actually gained 40 pounds this past year. I constantly feel tired and my energy levels are not what they should be. I have had a lot of stress this last year and between that and some life long health issues I suspect they are the real culprit to my weight gain. I do much better in the summer because I grill a lot and veggies are cheaper out here in Kansas, but in the winter I fix a lot of goulash, stroganoff (really just hamburger, onion and beef broth over white rice), stewed chicken over rice – you see the pattern here – lots of white rice and whole wheat pasta. Maybe I should try mixing my brown and white rice so my kids don’t freak out and gradually wean them off the white rice.
You have given me a lot to think about, I am going to try adding more lean meats to my personal diet along with more veggies and see what happens. My Mom, Dad and I have made a commitment to be accountable to each other so I have a good support system in place. Thank you LeAnn for your encouragement, I look forward to your recipes! BTW, I have ordered Lysa’s book and plan on doing a Bible study with my Mom.
Hi LeAnn,
Thanks so much for sharing what works for you. Do you use sugar to cook with or do you substitute honey, etc. in recipes? I was curious if you had a conversion chart between sugar and those other sweetners to know how much to use. Thanks!
Hi Jennifer,
Substituting sugar has been the most difficult part of my daily eating “plan.” For the most part, I eliminated all sugar from my diet, including breads and pasta as they turn to sugar. I do use minimal amounts of stevia, honey, pure maple syrup and agave nectar when I absolutely must have a sweetener. They work when cooking but I have yet to find a substitute that works for baking. I will continue to play with this and pass on any successful results! I find that the sweetening produces I use tend to be sweeter than regular sugar so I always start out with about half the amount that I think I will need. Hope that helps!
Blessings,
LeAnn
Thanks LeAnn for sharing your heart out!!! I usually don’t call it dieting, because that just makes me feel like I have to give up a lot. So with that I just try changing my eating habits. (not very good at it though), but you have inspired me to do better. I am not over weight but my eating habits are horrible. I will be doing the “Made to Crave” video with Lysa and learning how to do all this God’s way. I have a niece that did something similar years ago and she has slimmed down tremendously and she has stayed there. You, Lysa, Holly, are just wonderful in everything you do. Keep up the good work and may God bless you always!!!
Thanks for sharing this. Does Dr. Dillon, a Naturopathic Physician have anyone in Florida she can recommend?
I am enjoying my recent finding of your blog.
Blessings to you!
Hello LeAnn- Well after reading your article on the 1st — I was inspired and challanged to make this lifestyle change— I started on Monday the 3rd and have been faithful to eating properly— I already feel more energy, but the first couple of days were hard for sure! I am a mommy of 2 little ones 2 1/2 and 16 mo and have 50 pounds to lose— think I am on my way with this change—my pants are already feeling a little better in the waist— I do have a question- do you eat peanut butter- Adams with 1g of sugar or not at all? Thanks for the inspiration and the yummy recepies— In Christ, Amanda
I am so happy to hear how well you are doing! That’s awesome!
I do eat peanut butter. I love it!!! I use Smuckers Natural when I don’t have time to go to the heath food store that grinds their own. We don’t have Adams at my grocery store but it sounds similar to the Smuckers. When I get a craving for peanut butter and jelly I slice some strawberries and eat with a little pb
Hi LeAnn, great tips! I am at the beginning of my weight loss journey and struggling with not wanting to eat anything! Just nothing sounds good at all, so then I get so hungry that I eat whatever I can eat quickly! I want to cook healthy foods and have no idea where to start! Any tips on where to find good recipes? I cook for 6. I already only drink water and made the switch to whole grains/brown rice and such…I just need some great healthy recipes for chicken and fish dishes. Also, have you ever tried using natural applesauce for your baking instead of sugar? I have read that a lot of people do that.
Congratulations for beginning this journey, Heather! First, check out the category “Healthy Options” in my recipe index. This is a good place to start. Also, pick up a copy of “Clean Eating” magazine at your grocery store. There are lots of great recipes for families along with shopping tips!
I have used applesauce in baking. You can also substitute sugar-free baby foods. Prunes, carrots, sweet potatoes, etc. are naturally sweet and they are already pureed so they work great in muffins and snack breads.
Also, when looking for recipes, don’t just look for healthy recipes. Start with the recipes for things your family already likes and play with substitutions or cooking techniques. Bake slices or wedges of potatoes instead of making fries (sweet potatoes are excellent this way). Roast your veggies for added sweetness and flavor. When a recipe calls for sour cream, substitute sugar-free plain Greek yogurt. Once you start making substitutions it will start to become your new normal and it will get easier.
Good luck!
Blessings,
LeAnn
The weight lose is great but you are doing something very, very good for yourself. I spent the beginning of this year with a broken leg because of osteoporious. After much researching I found a program by two women doctors that give a natural way to help bone growth and it is much to do with the way you eat and you are sure on the right track, almost the same eating pattern I am now doing and I have lost 25 pounds and a extra bonus that was not my goal but happy with the results.
God bless you, keep spreding the good word.